Cuckold porn has ruined my life. I’ve never even had a gf or sex before, but I can’t get this stuff outta my head. It’s totally changed my perception and no matter how hard I try or how many girls reassure me, I can’t get over it. I believe that once a girl has had a large lover, she’s physically and psychologically changed. And that every girl at least wants to experience it once and then again after she tries it. One caption stands out. It’s a pretty girl in a bikini with her back to the camera and it just says, “I want to be full.” Then under says “why deny or blame her.” Does every girl secretly crave this, no matter what they say? I’m so afraid that a girl will lie and I’ll always be making her miss out on something. I fear that a longer cock can touch places I can’t and a thick one can fill her and give her an intense pleasure that I can’t. I mean how important is a full feeling to women? Is there any way that I could give a girl that?Have I just warped my mind on this, or do I have reason to worry? I see that this blog is dedicated to helping guys like me, so maybe this is the place to come, but I can’t stop thinking about it. Please help I just want to feel good about myself instead of sick to my stomach. I’m sorry for such a long post, but I have to try something.
These are all reasonable concerns and while a thicker penis may give more pleasure on average, this is not the case for all women. just to pointedly answer each question:
Does every girl secretly crave this, no matter what they say? === No, they do not. not EVERY girl and i would go as far as to say not even most. Yes, many women do love fat cocks but there are plenty of women who also can’t handle something that is above average in thickness and would prefer there partners be on the thinner side of dick. Also, it is very unlikely a woman would ‘crave’ a thick penis if she has never actually experienced one (or a thick dildo etc.) and there are plenty of women (though this doesn’t apply to women who have probably slept around a lot) who haven’t. So to reiterate, NO, not all women secretly crave a bigger penis and most would be PERFECT HAPPY with a guy who simply knows how to make them orgasm, whether it be through the use of their mouths, hands, cock etc. So any shortcomings you may feel you have in the penis department you can more than make up for by ensuring she orgasms even if it’s not with your dick.
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I mean how important is a full feeling to women? === I’m sure there are quite a few women who just love being filled up & even stretched and there are those who not only love but need that feeling to get off during penetration. There’s no going around that fact but you have to remember two things: 1) again this does not apply to all women 2) feeling ‘filled up’ is RELATIVE … what is ‘full’ to one woman, may be too much or too little for another (woman).
Is there any way that I could give a girl that?Have I just warped my mind on this, or do I have reason to worry? === to continue on the above point, yes you can fill a woman, DEPENDING on how thin you are and how tight she is. there is a point where a penis can be too thin to fill any pussy but that is usually an extreme outlier where the girth is very thin. so i wont say you will fill all, you may not even fill most, but there are some women out there that you can likely fill so always keep that in mind. always. finally, i would just like to say that having a pencil dick doesn’t mean you cannot provide immense pleasure for a woman, you may just have to try a little harder than someone swinging a meat stick between their legs. also, confidence is key … it is the one factor that you don’t hear about as much as you should when it comes to what women love and almost need their man to have because it’s not tangible like money or easily seen such as aesthetically pleasing features such as a handsome face or big muscles. so there’s nothing wrong if you like to dabble in cuckold porn, but when it gets to the point where you start buying into it, and losing confidence and self worth, you need to take a serious step back and evaluate if watching it is doing more harm than good. porn is porn. i repeat, PORN IS PORN! it is market driven and there is a niche for almost anything you can think of. when studios set out to produce films of a particular niche, they will always go a little over the top (or maybe way over) to get their ‘point’ across so that the persons watching get their ‘money’s worth’ so to say. so don’t worry, MOST women do not secretly fantasize about fucking another man WHILE having their husband’s watch in addition to humiliating them in the process. it’s simply a genre or niche of porn catered to men & women who ACTUALLY LIKE the idea of cuckolding. the very last thing i will say is this: your penis issues are YOUR issues. do not assume your partner has issues with it or cares about your size just because YOU do. and worst don’t pester them about it or constantly seek validation from them about YOUR penis size issues. you have to trust that they like or love you, the man attached to the dick and if they do have issues with the size, then you two can have a rational and calm discussion about alternatives. just don’t make your relationship revolve around you thinking everyone and their grandma will be dissatisfied by your penis. I hope this has helped.
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Hi, I don’t actually have an account so this was the only way I could figure out how to ask a question. Ok so my penis is about 1.5/1.6 inches at it’s widest point with between a 4.5-4.7 girth roughly. It’s a little thinner and less girthy at the base. Ok so my question is for the average girl would I be able to “stretch” or give the feeling where her pussy physically grips onto my shaft, or will I/her always miss out on that? I’m not comparing myself to porn, but I see that type of thing so often and it’s a real turn on. I just hope that I’m not so under average that it’s super noticeable.
+++ Great question. It is something I have worried about for years but I have found that it really depends on how tight her pussy is. 4.5 is around average or slightly below average and can give a stretching phenomenon IF USED CORRECTLY by angling the cock (eg. at a 45 degree angle) or using a circular thrusting motion with your hips. Read more here on sexual position tips as well as understanding vaginas and female orgasms:
This doesn’t mean that you can’t provide the stretching sensation without angling but it’s best to use all the moves in your arsenal. Thick cocks have the advantage that due to their width, they can stretch simply by moving ‘in and out’ (the typical sexual motion where cock slides in and out of the vagina at no angle) providing friction against her walls and stimulating the ‘inner lining’ of clitoris. Dicks that are thinner may need to angle themselves in such a way that they can make contact with both sides of her walls while entering which means the typical ‘in and out’ motion would not necessarily work DEPENDING on how thin the guy is and how tight the female is. If she is loose or is very used to thiick cocks, there is almost no way you will be able to ‘stretch’ her pussy
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